the ENNEAGRAM test
the Helperyou chose CX - your Enneagram type is TWO.
"I must help others"
Helpers are warm, concerned, nurturing, and sensitive to other people's needs.
How to Get Along with Me
- Tell me that you appreciate me. Be specific.
- Share fun times with me.
- Take an interest in my problems, though I will probably try to focus on yours.
- Let me know that I am important and special to you.
- Be gentle if you decide to criticize me.
In Intimate Relationships
- Reassure me that I am interesting to you.
- Reassure me often that you love me.
- Tell me I'm attractive and that you're glad to be seen with me.
What I Like About Being a Two
- being able to relate easily to people and to make friends
- knowing what people need and being able to make their lives better
- being generous, caring, and warm
- being sensitive to and perceptive about others' feelings
- being enthusiastic and fun-loving, and having a good sense of humor
What's Hard About Being a Two
- not being able to say no
- having low self-esteem
- feeling drained from overdoing for others
- not doing things I really like to do for myself for fear of being selfish
- criticizing myself for not feeling as loving as I think I should
- being upset that others don't tune in to me as much as I tume in to them
- working so hard to be tactful and considerate that I suppress my real feelings
Twos as Children Often
- are very sensitive to disapproval and criticism
- try hard to please their parents by being helpful and understanding
- are outwardly compliant
- are popular or try to be popular with other children
- act coy, precocious, or dramatic in order to get attention
- are clowns and jokers (the more extroverted Twos), or quiet and shy (the more introverted Twos)
Twos as Parents
- are good listeners, love their children unconditionally, and are warm and encouraging (or suffer guilt if they aren't)
- are often playful with their children
wonder: "Am I doing it right?" "Am I giving enough?" "Have I caused irreparable damage?"
- can become fiercely protective
:)
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hmph hmph. all full up.
Today i read over Life! and saw a short clip over tv about Steve - Croc hunter's memorial thingy in aussie.
Her Daugther
Bindi Sue making a speech for daddy's lost and how much a hero he is to her.... n she'll miss him everyday.. and ofcus daddy's love for animals... n how shes gonna continue her love for the animal world too...
it was so so swet and touching..
This puts an end to his death and croc hunter's story.. but i know he will be remembered...
n his wife,children and family will live on his spirit!. ( their love for this world.. the reality. i really admire them. ) ppl we shld all have such an attitude to life too ya! :)
Past few days, wk.
met up w my pri sch frens.
nt the closer ones im always in touch w but the other few that i once were really close to.
wad made us reunite? Animals. cinds & dogs always linked up-
i was told! ha
so cute right!
:) yeah.
2 of the 3 are twins!!! they came out of the same waterbag! e 3rd pup w the lighter brown nose ( bcus it has lesser black pigment- means no sun tanning!!!) we tot he was albino but the vet told us.. he is just
special w blu eyes and a lighter coat! :) Mummy dog gave birth to 7 pups.. but only frm 6 water bags. if u know abt dog's birth process they sorta 'poo' out water bags! haha. my fren cheryl's dad's fren's Cocker Spaniel's pups! :) she helped look after 3 of the 7 before they find their new homes. I popped by w my sisters and after even acc her n another fren of ours oso my pri sch mate for the pup's 1st vaccine!
it was a really really special outing..
cheryl drove and we had 5 dogs and 3 woman + rach's bf in e car! haha. rach's doggies went to e vet too! i was in e front seat w the 3 lil pups!
its was a great trip.. n to kep it short.. the pups really melted my hart n reminded me of how i 1st brought wynn wynn home when she was just 3 wks old.. the pups r now 6 wks... imagine i went thru feeding n cleaning up after wynn wynn n cheryl had to do it triple plus her micko-he 5yr old dog @ hm!!! she said she lost 1kg after e 1st 2days! haha...
it was alot of hard wrk.. they peep n poop all e tym . slep aftr they eat.. cry when they r hungry n starts to nibble ... it was crazy!!!. but i loved it! hahha...
wynn wynn was so tiny when u got her.. 3 wks was nt e right tym to bring a up hm i heard frm e vet. 6wks then they'll stop drinking mummy's milk.. but i wondered how did i look after wynn!!! watching Animal planet sure did help! hahaha...
but anyways.. e pups was really lovable and i get hm wynn will sniff me like no1 business! haha. n i smell of pup poo n hav their fur all over! hahah.. u can imagine me,cheryl n rach crawling behing them @ the living rm as the poooo n peee! yes.. 3 grown woman! ha. that sure bring us back to the old tym in sch.. we gossip n talked alot abt the old tyms.. and that ofcus made me realise alot of things.. n emotions was overflowing...
i wasnt that happi..
bcus alot of things has changed.
n the truth really made my heart felt so heavy.
i chldnt tell any1... n i was so grouchy...
in e end i told alil to
ger. now its over n ive sorted my tots..
it still bothers me.. but im trying hard to nt tnk abt it..
i really wanna wrk hard.
wanna live my drem my kinda life!
hmph.
stil. i loved reviving old frenships! n u know wad.. animals/DOGS r really human's best fren
btw 1 of the pups found a home....
:)
till nxt tym..
cnt wait for sat. mylove
HELP
my tagboard went to the bottom of my page..
any1. help.
gdymornning sunrise..
Guess wad mr postman sent me!!
=)
thanks Em! jewel thief's great wrks.a necklace i ordered from my swet fren who flew herself to aussie. this ger just follows wad her hart tells her!.. my order came w a bagcharm and ear rings! haha.. COmbo? ha. my b-lated bd pres. THanku so much emily! thku! love it! i shall parade it soon k! :Ddid i mentioned anth that comes by the post always seems extra cool n exciting! haha.______________________________________________________________
Have a few stuffs to share.
hav u hear the Croc Hunter left us? cnt u believ it?! by a stingray?!!! ironic.
croc hunter. Dad came hm that day n told me.. : " ..u know that guy e animal planet ch10 one.. he died..." shock.
i hope thers more of it.. i so wanna learn more abt it.
Mon did any1 watch Independence Day?!
pls say yes.
its my fav show of all tyms.. i tnk i watched it 6 tyms? ha.
n comming sat or sun.. Pls catch I AM SAM on ch5!
its my Total fav too!!!
if u miss it... i got e dvd!! pls cme n get it frm me.. such gd shows r so meant to be shared!
dakota fanning ...sean penn...michelle pfeiffer! watch it k!
hmm...
lately im been pretty confused.
bored.
tired over nth.
nt so busy.
lazy.
but ive realised that this period of tym made me watch alot of shows, docus.. dramas... etc..
n made me realise.. alot.
i watched this docu on travel adv. on sum cultural stuffs... n ok im not so arty. ha.. but i do enjoy such docus. its abt sum far away country.. n their beliefs, practice. yest chU. sum guy marry a muslim n learnt his roles. Kids that is diff in our era. a 10yr old being a environment-fanatic.. a volunteer walk thru guide @ sum nature reseverv in spore... etc etc.. the list goes on..
thers so much happening arnd us. n im stil stuck in my comfort zone.. in my hse, my rm..in the computer.. in my own life...
cindy. tym to move out ur comfort zone.
n im trying to figure out how to.
life is full of excitement.. surprises ..
if its becuming predictable..
ur life wld bcum dull. true?
mayb im young..
i cnt wait for changes , surprises n excitement.
u know i once told
ger,
i like the kind of life when everyday is packed with events n activities..
like b4.
true enuff i had those days.. but yet then i hurriedly moved out of it. y?.
bcus those packed days we busy days for other ppl.. but nt myself. udrstand?
my days of hard wrk.n pack days were events and wrk for other ppl.. n nt doing things i enjoy n wld learn and grow frm...
if thers a fairy.
direct me to my role.
tonite im going bk to church. for a event.
yes after so long.
i hope
god have nt forgotten this bad child of his.
i know god has it all planned for me.
but i always refuse it..
but will it come this tym round?
we shall see.
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the ship that i felt sanking.but i do not know y.but im willing to give it the last try.but is this the ship i really want.u made me see the kind of ship i need.u made me find out the truth-ful me.u made me pain u made me not.im nt such a gd sailor after all.
i hope.
mylove
